Quick side note: I realized that I pretty much gave away the entire film in my discussion of Sleuth, so from here on out I’m going to try to write my posts in such a way that I don’t ruin the movies for any of you who haven’t seen them yet. So from this post on, the spoilers will be kept to a minimum, aside from really obvious things. Like I’m pretty sure we all know how Titanic ended, even if you never saw it.
And now onto #249…
Current Top 250 Ranking: n/a
Starring: Diego Luna, Gael García Bernal, Maribel Verdú
Seen It Before?: No
I just finished watching Y Tu Mamá También (2001), and I feel a bit stunned. But not in the “that was such a good movie!” way I felt after finishing Sleuth. This is more of a mentally stunned “wow…” sort of feeling.
As I was watching the movie, there were initially a couple things that I found bothering me. Every time the sound of the film is muted so that the narrator can speak, there is a pause just long enough to feel awkward before he starts talking. It took me the entire movie to get used to that pause. The other thing that bothered me was that I felt that there didn’t seem to be enough motivation or explanation to Luisa’s character to merit her behavior. The incredibly forward way in which she spoke about sex wasn’t totally unreasonable. Her decision to leave her cheating husband with no intention of even leaving a note, let alone ever returning, wasn’t so implausible. Her selfish sexual nature could be real too. But in putting together all the pieces of Luisa, she didn’t add up. To me, there was something keeping me from finding her character realistic and believable. But I got my answer in the end. The ending, where we learn what has become of the characters following the road trip that makes up the majority of the film, is of a greatly different tone than the rest of the film. It grounds their fantastic journey in a realism it was on the verge of lacking at times, and the “hindsight is 20/20” philosophy becomes very apropos. And the ending hits you like those awkward pauses preceding the narration, while simultaneously explaining them. They were foreshadowing I suppose. Preparing me for the unexpected feeling I was to receive at the end.
Oh and speaking of the unexpected, I spent a decent portion of the movie trying to figure out what the title was supposed to mean. It turns out that it’s a line in the film itself. I won’t tell you who says it or when.
If I had to pick just a few words to describe this movie, I would go with: sad, erotic, and deep. Erotic and deep almost seem like they should be mutually exclusive, and in a good bit of the movie, they each do exist without the other. One isn’t thinking too deeply or philosophically when watching Tenoch have sex with his girlfriend. (Parts of this movie are truly like something out of Kids (1985).) Conversely, one certainly is not thinking of sex during the trio’s road trip when the narrator sends us on side stories about long-forgotten home towns and fatal car accidents. But erotic and deep both come to describe the relationship between Luisa, Tenoch and Julio by the end of the movie, in both expected and rather unexpected ways. And as for the third adjective, sad, I did not expect the entire ending of this movie to be the way it was. It is disappointing and unfortunate, but at the same time very real. Which strangely enough, again reminds me of Kids, because the very end of the ridiculously-sexual Kids presents something of a serious wake-up call just as Y Tu Mamá También makes us step back from the sexualized road trip to really think about life for a moment.
Last of all I just have to say how much I enjoyed the characters in this movie. Luisa is hurting but strong, and dynamic and fun. And Tenoch and Julio both really are caring and well-intentioned, with a little daring, irrationality and hormones getting in their own way. Put the kids to bed before you watch this one.